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 Post subject: Marriage-5 By Pastor Piet Smit.
PostPosted: Tue Sep 08, 2015 10:33 am 

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One hears from time to time that the husband tells the wife that there is someone else and that he doesn't love her anymore, then he moves out of the house to live with the other woman.
But suppose you did leave your wife and child to move in with the other woman, and after a while you realize that it is not love, but it was only a phase of thinking you were in love.

The embarrassment you bring on yourself, the embarrassment you brought on your family. You are the talk of the town, The sin of adultery.

How do one recover from such a bad choice and shame. Even if you return home afterwards ... people will remember.

Why did this happen?

If you have met the person at work you must remember that at work you only see one side of a person. The nice side. Everyone goes to work looking good and smelling nice. They are mostly friendly. But remember, there is also a shadow side to every person. You do not know a person when they are at home.

Dr Lemmer says that if something like this happens to you, you must just stick to your normal way. Your hormones will work its way and within 6 months that "feeling" of in-love with someone else will be over. Hormones in your brain makes you believe that you are really in-love.

Even the most wonderful things gets bored if one do it over and over again. It happens to most marriages. We are not creative in our marriages anymore; we do not give surprises anymore, or make effort. So in the end longing for something exiting happens.
So take time to make your marriage exiting. Give them the best you have. Be creative and do things in different ways, and you will get to see the fireworks.

Lord, please give me new ideas to put the spark back into my marriage. Amen.

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